CHAP. XXVIII. The Parson in Contempt.
The Inevitability of Contempt and the Apostolic Mandate
The Country Parson accepts that contempt is his portion, yet strives to prevent it through holy living, following the Apostle's rule.
The Country Parson knows well that he must be despised — both for the general scorn cast on the profession, and much more for those rules which, by his best judgment, he has resolved to keep, and which are set out in this book; because this has been the lot of God his Master and of God's saints his brothers, and it is foretold that it will still be so until all things are no more. Nevertheless, according to the Apostle's rule, he works so that no one will despise him; especially in his own parish, he does not allow it as far as his power can prevent it — for where contempt is, there is no room for instruction.1
Four Shields to Prevent Contempt
Through a holy life, courteous manners, bold reproof, and recourse to law, the Parson ensures he is not despised.
This he secures, first, by his holy and blameless life, which carries a reverence with it that rises even above contempt. Secondly, by courteous bearing and winning manners: whoever wants to be respected must show respect — doing kindnesses but receiving none, at least from those who are apt to despise him. For this shows a height and eminence of mind that is not easily despised, unless it degenerates into pride.2 Thirdly, by bold and impartial reproof, even of the best people in the parish, when the occasion requires it: for this may produce hatred in those who are reproved, but never contempt — either in them or in others. Lastly, if the contempt goes so far as to do anything punishable by law — as contempt is apt to do if it is not checked — the Parson, giving due regard both to the person and to the cause, refers the whole matter to the examination and punishment of those in authority, so that the sentence falling on one may serve as an example to all.
The Five Shields of the Godly Parson
When contempt is not legally actionable, the Parson responds with humility, dismissiveness, sorrow, teaching, or triumphant joy, thus overcoming evil.
But if the contempt is not punishable by law, or if it is, and the Parson judges in his discretion that it is either unfit or useless to contest it, then when anyone despises him, he takes it either in a humble way, saying nothing at all; or else in a dismissive way, showing that reproaches touch him no more than a stone thrown against heaven, where he is and lives; or in a sorrowful way, grieved at his own and others' sins, which continually break God's laws and dishonor him with those mouths he continually fills and feeds; or else in a teaching way, saying to the one who despises him, "Alas, why do you do this?"3 "You hurt yourself, not me; he who throws a stone at another hits himself." And so, between gentle reasoning and pitying, he overcomes the evil. Or lastly, in a triumphant way — glad and joyful that he is made conformable to his Master, and that, being in the world as He was, he has this undoubted pledge of his salvation. These are the five shields with which the godly take the darts of the wicked—leaving anger, retort, and revenge to the children of the world, whom another person's wrong masters and leads captive without any real resistance, even while they resist, into the same destruction.✦✦✦4 For while they resist the person who insults them, they don't resist the evil that takes hold of them—and that's by far the worse enemy.✦
Read the original English
THe Countrey Parson knows well, that both for the generall ignominy which is cast upon the profession, and much more for those rules, which out of his choysest judgment hee hath resolved to observe, and which are described in this Book, he must be despised; because this hath been the portion of God his Master, and of Gods Saints his Brethren, and this is foretold, that it shall be so still, until things be no more. Neverthelesse, according to the Apostles rule, he endeavours that none shall despise him; especially in his own Parish he suffers it not to his utmost power; for that, where contempt is, there is no room for instruction. This he procures, first by his holy and unblameable life; which carries a reverence with it, even above contempt. Secondly, by a courteous carriage, & winning behaviour: he that wil be respected, must respect; doing kindnesses, but receiving none; at least of those, who are apt to despise: for this argues a height and eminency of mind, which is not easily despised, except it degenerate to pride. Thirdly, by a bold and impartial reproof, even of the best in the Parish, when occasion requires: for this may produce hatred in those that are reproved, but never contempt either in them, or others. Lastly, if the contempt shall proceed so far as to do any thing punishable by law, as contempt is apt to do, if it be not thwarted, the Parson having a due respect both to the person, and to the cause, referreth the whole matter to the examination, and punishment of those which are in Authority, that so the sentence lighting upon one, the example may reach to all. But if the Contempt be not punishable by Law, or being so, the Parson think it in his discretion either unfit, or bootelesse to contend, then when any despises him, he takes it either in an humble way, saying nothing at all; or else in a slighting way, shewing that reproaches touch him no more, then a stone thrown against heaven, where he is, and lives; or in a sad way, grieved at his own, and others sins, which continually breake Gods Laws, and dishonour him with those mouths, which he continually fils, and feeds: or else in a doctrinall way, saying to the contemner, Alas, why do you thus? you hurt your selfe, not me; he that throws a stone at another, hits himseife; and so between gentle reasoning, and pitying, he overcomes the evill: or lastly, in a Triumphant way, being glad, and Joyfull, that he is made conformable to his Master; and being in the world as he was, hath this undoubted pledge of his salvation.
These are the five shields, wherewith the Godly receive the darts of the wicked; leaving anger, and retorting, and revenge to the children of the world, whom anothers ill mastereth, and leadeth captive without any resistance, even in resistance, to the same destruction. For while they resist the person that reviles, they resist not the evill which takes hold of them, and is farr the worse enemy.
Scripture echoes
- ↩Eph.6.16 — In all circumstances, take up the shield of faith, with which you will be able to extinguish all the flaming arrows of the evil one.
- ↩Luke.16.8 — And the master commended the dishonest manager because he had acted shrewdly; for the people of this age are more shrewd in dealing with their own generation than the people of light.
- ↩Rom.7.23;2Tim.2.26 — But I see another law in my members, waging war against the law of my mind, and making me captive to the law of sin which is in my members. 2Tim.2.26 — and that they may come to their senses and escape from the snare of the devil, having been captured by him to do his will.
- ↩Rom.12.17-Rom.12.21 — Repay no one evil for evil, but take thought for what is good in the sight of all people. Rom.12.18 — If possible, so far as it depends on you, live at peace with all people. Rom.12.19 — Beloved, never avenge yourselves, but leave room for wrath, for it is written, 'Vengeance is mine; I will repay, says the Lord.' Rom.12.20 — But if your enemy is hungry, feed him; if he is thirsty, give him something to drink; for by doing this you will heap burning coals on his head. Rom.12.21 — Do not be conquered by evil, but conquer evil with good.
Notes
- 1 ↩"the Apostle's rule" most likely points to 1 Timothy 4:12 or Titus 2:15 ("let no one despise you").
- 2 ↩"doing kindnesses, but receiving none" means he freely helps others while declining favors from those inclined to scorn him, so his independence of spirit cannot easily be belittled — unless it turns into pride.
- 3 ↩Early modern "bootelesse" rendered as "useless"; "slighting way" as "dismissive way" (treating the insult as of little account); "doctrinall way" as "teaching way."
- 4 ↩"even in resistance" is Herbert's deliberate paradox: worldly people resist the person who injured them, yet offer no true resistance to the evil of anger and revenge that is mastering them.
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